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giovedì 10 maggio 2012
Giovedì Roomeeffoc: what is love - Che cosa è l'amore
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Roomeeffoc Thursday
The provoking post
Giovedì Roomeeffoc
La provocazione per riflettere
Il testo in italiano è in corso di traduzione. Scusate il ritardo
Next english post Tuesday May 15th
Prossimo post Sabato Italiano 12 maggio
There are
few books that we are using extensively in our education strategy and in our
job as parenting consultant and lecturers: we mentioned several time in this
blog the works of Gary Chapman and his wife, the two books written by Mariolina
Migliarese (and let me strongly suggest to our foreigners readers to work for a
translation of these texts in their own language) and the book by Meg Meeker
Strong Father Strong Daughter.
We want to
use for this roomeeffoc post some sentences that were offered by Mariolina in one of her conferences to present
her books. We believe they are strong and they can provide a powerful food for
thoughts.
Let’s first
state them before writing some comments while waiting for yours.
Marriage should be define as that specific relation between a man and a
woman whose timeframe is forever
Only living a
“forever relation” you feel at ease to show your weaknesses and frailties
Living together and being married pretend and
produce two different kind of relation
We won’t of
course attack those who have decided to skip or delay marriage, we are just
discussing why we do believe that indissoluble marriage is the best condition
to set a family and to live together.
The first
sentence simply state that there are many kind of relation that link a man and
a woman and marriage should be the
one defined by indissolubility, by a life together without end.
Actually
the “forever” condition is the only one that allows a couple to love without
limitations. Please note that I wrote allows and not implies. Since people have
a free will, it’s their job to make this condition possible. Having said so it
is clear that once you feel protected by a shield of love that gives before
asking, you feel free and at ease to show your limitations since you can rely
upon a spouse that will forgive you and help you to change. One of the goal of
marriage is mutual improvement. To improve we need to be aware of our
weaknesses and show them to whom can help us to overcome them.
If you
believe that love can be based on excellent performances, and that your life
together will last till keep them at the highest possible level, you will start soon to lie to cover your
mistakes and frailties, thus jeopardizing your relation.
This is why
the output of marriage and living together implies and produces two different
kind of relation, one based on gratuity while the other one is based on
reciprocal satisfaction.
Once more I
like to state that I do not want to criticize neither claim that people who are
not married are bad people. Nothing is farthest in my mind.
I just like
to offer a position to discuss. Nothing more.
And now
it’s up to you.
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